Gaining Confidence to Respect Yourself
Above all, respect yourself
"If you want to be respected by others, the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you." -Fyodor Dostoevsky
There is a reason why you hear someone COMMANDS RESPECT. They do not ask to be respected. It is commanded by their presence and their overall decisions they have made by carrying this essence in the way they talk, move, and act. We must accept where we are in our lives. You do not have to be an ivy league graduate or a lawyer with a great track record. You can be a gardener or a grocery store clerk, and your occupation has nothing to do with how and if people respect your attitude and presence.
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To be constantly flattering someone in a higher position because you think this will help you get further in your relationship or career for example can make people lose respect for you. When you respect yourself you are IN YOUR INTEGRITY. This means being present enough to make the best decisions possible in every moment. When your mind is scattered or you lost control of yourself from alcohol, you are more likely to do things that are not in your best alignment, therefore disrespecting your potential to be greater.
If you have trouble commanding respect by losing control of yourself to please others, hypnosis can help you regain confidence, and also the authority to make decisions that are better aligned with what is best for you, so you have this self-respect.